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each end being put about the wrists, leaving about one foot of loose string between them. These things are worn till the child is fourteen days old, when some families remove them. Sometimes, however, a ring of red cord or of red tape, with or without some cash or toy, is worn for several months, or even for a year. When soiled, the tape or cord is exchanged for another clean one.

The ancient cash is used as a charm, in order to keep away evil spirits or influences. The silver toys are designed as omens of good relating to the future life of the child, as it were expressing the desire that it may become wealthy and honored. The wrists are thus tied together in order to prevent the child becoming naughty and disobedient. It is thought that such a tying of the wrists will tend to keep the child from being troublesome in after-life, and from meddling with what does not belong to it, just as though he or she was bound. When boys and girls are naughty and troublesome, they are often asked if their mammas did not bind their wrists? implying that if their wrists had been properly bound when an infant, they would have been restrained from misconduct in subsequent life.

On the third day after the birth of the babe two Chinese characters are written on a piece of red paper, which, having been carefully folded around a parcel inclosing certain articles, is hung up on a nail or peg on the outside of the door of its mother's room by means of a red string tied around it. The design of this paper and contents is to ward off unfavorable influences from the child; and persons who are not very intimate with the family, on seeing it, understand it to constitute a request that they should not enter the room. Some say that only those persons who were present at the washing of the babe are allowed to enter the bedroom as long as the red paper is attached to the door, which is for eleven days.

This parcel contains two of a certain fruit full of seed used in the manufacture of a material employed somewhat like soap in washing, some pith of a rush used for wicking, two chopsticks, one or two onions, two pieces of charcoal, some cat's hair, and some dog's hair. A pair of the trowsers of the child's father are put upon the frame of the bedstead, in such a way that the waist shall hang downward, or be lower than the legs. On the trowsers is stuck a piece of red paper, having four words written upon it, intimating that all unfavorable influences are to go into the trowsers instead of afflicting the babe. The hair in the package on the outside of the bedroom door is to keep the noises which may be made for eleven days by the dogs and cats in the vicinity from frightening the babe. The coal is to aid in making it hardy and vigorous. The onions are to cause it to be quick-witted and intelligent. The pith is explained as contributing to make it fortunate or successful in life. The two fruits are to aid it in being cleanly and neat. It is believed that if persons come

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When it is one month old, mother and child, according to theory, leave the bedroom for the first time after her confinement. On this day occurs another important ceremony, that of shaving the child's head for the first time, either by a barber or by one of the family. Some are careful to have it done before an image of "Mother" if it is a girl, and before the ancestral family tablets if it is a boy, incense and candles being lighted in front of the image and the tablets. A thank-offering is also presented to the goddess on this occasion. Relations and intimate friends are invited to a feast. often come to witness the shaving of the child's head. Those who come must bring with them presents of money or silver rings, vermicelli, or fowls, etc. In case of its being the first-born, Tauist priests are often invited to perform the ceremony called "passing through the door," for the benefit of the babe. The maternal grandmother of the child is always expected to bring or send presents of clothing or food on this day.

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When the child is four months old "Mother" is again thanked; relatives and friends are again invited to a feast, who bring or send presents of money or food. As at the end of a month, so now the maternal grandmother or her present, if she does not come in person, occupies a prominent position. If the circumstances of her family allow her to do so, she makes expensive presents of food and clothing, and a chair, sometimes painted red, together with a quantity of molasses candy. The various articles of food are presented as an oblation before "Mother." The happy father, or the paternal grandfather or grandmother, bows down before the goddess, and begs that the child may be good-natured and easy to take care of, that it may grow fast, that it may sleep well at night, that it may be wide awake in the daytime, that it may not be given to crying, and that it may be kept in good health. The edibles are subsequently feasted on by the family and invited guests, having

been previously presented before the ancestral | tablets of the family, where incense and candles table.

are already burning. On this are laid a set of money-scales, a pair of shears, a foot-measure, a brass mirror, pencil, ink, paper, and ink-slab, one or two books, the abacus, a silver or a gold ornament or implement, and fruits, etc. The child, dressed in the new garments just presented, is placed upon the sieve in the midst of the articles upon it. The object now is to see what it will first take hold of and play with. The moment is one of great interest to the parents and assembled friends. It is said that the article or articles the child first takes up indicate its future employment, character, or condition in the world. If the child be a boy, and he takes a book or an implement connected with literature, as pen or ink, it is surmised that he

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CHILD SITTING ON A CHAIR WHEN FOUR MONTHS OLD.

It is not usual to allow a child to sit in a chair until the day it is four months old. At a suitable time during this day the soft molasses candy provided by its maternal grandmother is taken, and put in the seat of the chair on rollers. The child is then put in the chair so as to sit down on this candy, which sticks it to the chair for the time being. This is done in order that it may learn to sit in the chair, and not require to be carried very much in the arms of the nurse or mother.

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On the anniversary of the child's birthday another thank-offering is presented to "Mother,' and other presents of food and of clothing are received from the maternal grandmother. If it be a boy, among other articles of clothing are a pair of boy's shoes and a cap; if a girl, besides clothing are wristlets and head ornaments. The provisions for the thank-offering are in theory provided by the maternal grandmother of the child.

Before the feast on this occasion, a large bamboo sieve, such as farmers use in winnowing

GRASPING PLAYTHINGS WHEN ONE YEAR OLD.

will become a distinguished scholar; if he seizes the money-scales, or the silver or gold instrument or ornament, that he will become famous for his wealth and for his talents in making money.

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tablets with special reference to a child, the child is taken there, if well, and made to worship in a certain manner by moving its hands up and down a few times. Sometimes, however, instead of its hands being moved up and down, the child, held in the hands of some one, is itself moved up and down before the object worshiped, which is reckoned the same as making it move its hands in worship.

The ceremony of "passing through the door" sustains a very important relation to the welfare of children, according to the sentiment and practice of many Chinese. Some families have it performed regularly every year; others every second year, as in the first and third; others every third year, as the third and sixth, and so on, until the child is six

teen years old, or the

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PASSING THROUGH THE DOOR.

ceremony of "going out of childhood" is observ- | bell while chanting his formulas, another beats ed. Sometimes, when a child is sickly, "the a drum, another strikes his cymbals together, door is passed through" once or twice per month, etc. The grand object of this is to invite ceror several times in the course of the year, according to the condition of the child and the will and ability of the parents. Probably there are few families here which do not have this ceremony performed more or less frequently between the third day after the birth of a child and the period when it is supposed to pass out of the control of "Mother." Sometimes it is performed in consequence of the decision of a fortune-teller for the benefit of a child.

tain goddesses to be present, which is supposed to be done when their names and places of residence have been repeated in the accustomed manner. The celebrated female divinities who are honored as midwives or "mothers," and who are believed to be particularly concerned in the rearing of children, or who originally lived in the surrounding country, are invited to be present.

At the proper time, usually in the afternoon, these goddesses are invited to partake of a feast, which has been arranged on a table for their entertainment. Besides eight or ten kinds of food, there are also provided a wash-bowl of hot water, and a towel, a fan, and cosmetics and artificial flowers for the especial use of the female divinities in making their toilet before partaking of the feast. The priests ring a bell, beat a drum, and clap their cymbals, reciting their liturgies for an indefinite time, which constitutes an invitation for these goddesses to partake of the col

A day is usually spent in "passing through the door" and its attendant ceremonies. Several priests of the Tauist sect (never any of the Buddhist sect) come to the residence of the lad's parents in the morning, before or after breakfast, according to agreement, and first arrange an altar, made out of tables placed one upon another. On the uppermost of the tables they place censers, candlesticks, and various images of their gods. Behind the altar they suspend three paper - hangings, upon which are painted several tens of goddesses, among whom that of "Mo-lation. ther" occupies a conspicuous position. In a convenient part of the room is placed a table, having upon it five, eight, or ten plates of meats, vegetables, fruits, and cakes. After every thing is properly arranged one of the priests rings a

The "door" is finally passed through in the middle of the afternoon or near sundown. This door is made out of bamboo, covered with red and white paper, and is some seven feet high by two and a half or three feet wide, costing per

haps twelve or fifteen cents. The furniture in the room is so arranged that the priests and the party which passes through this door can go around without doubling on their track. Sometimes a table is placed near the centre of the room, and an open space is left on all sides of it. One of the priests-who wears a fancycolored skirt, and has on his head a curiouslyshaped head-dress-takes in one hand a small bell, or a sword having small bells fastened to the handle, and in the other a horn, and commences reciting formulas or incantations in front of this door, which is often at this time standing near the centre of the room. The priest, thus dressed, personates "Mother" in the act of performing magic spells for the purpose of saving children from evil spirits and unhealthy and malignant influences. The paterfamilias, or, if absent or deceased, some one in his stead, calls the children of the family together. He takes the one which can not walk or which is sick in his arms, and the other children, if any, each take a single stick of lighted incense in their hands. The priest after a while blows his horn, and advances slowly through the door. He is followed by the paterfamilias or his representative, and all the children of the family, who thus pass through the door. All the other priests are at this time doing something to aid, as beating the drum and clapping their cymbals. The head priest brandishes the sword in the air, or in its place he sometimes flourishes a whip made in the shape of a snake, as though he was striking an invisible object.

The door is then taken and placed at one of the four corners of the room, and the priest, father, and children again pass through it in a similar manner. It is then successively placed at each of the other corners, and again in the centre, where it is respectively passed through by the priest and his followers. Soon after this the door is hacked in pieces, and its parts set on fire and burned in the open court of the house, or in the street in front of the house where the ceremony is performed.

While performing this ceremony a small wooden image, a foot high, more or less, is invariably used to represent the child for whose special benefit it is celebrated. When first performed for any child, a new one is obtained to represent it; and when not used, it is carefully preserved. Oftentimes it is placed by the side of "Mother's" image in the bedroom. The name of the child is usually written on the back of the image. In case the child dies before sixteen years of age, this image is placed in the coffin with its corpse, and buried with it. After the ceremony of "going out of childhood" has been performed, it is often used as a plaything by the children of the family. In case the child is exceedingly sick, and may not be carried in person through the door, this image, with or without some of the clothing of the child placed on a platter, is taken and carried through the door, instead of the child, which amounts to the same thing as though the child itself was carried VOL. XXXI.-No. 184.-GG

through. As above intimated, all the children of the family improve the opportunity to pass through the door, as well as the particular one for whose special benefit the ceremony is observed. Sometimes nephews and nieces, and several of the children of the near relatives of the family who happen to be present, also join the procession and pass through the door. The design of all this is to benefit the children, causing them to recover if sick or feeble, continuing them in health if well, and enabling them to arrive at a good old age.

Many parents, after the first shaving of the head of a child, when one month old, allow the hair to grow on a part of the top of the head, if a boy, in the shape and of the size of a small peach, until eight or ten years old, or even until sixteen years old; if a girl, a patch of hair is often allowed to grow on one or both sides of the head. Many Chinese seem to be at a loss why the tuft is left. Some explain that which is left on the pate of a boy to be for a defense of the soft part of the skull. They all seem to regard it as an omen of good, or a kind of charm, and conducive to the health or welfare of the child.

Sometimes neither the "peach" nor the queue is allowed to grow until the lad is some six or eight years old, the whole head being regularly shaven. The cause of this delay is sometimes said to be the death of his father or mother when it was decided to let one or both of these grow. Sometimes, in the case of him who is the only son of his parents, and born long after their marriage, they vow to give him up to be the child of some idol or to be a Buddhist priest. They will not then let his hair grow on his pate until six or eight years old. Their object in making this vow, and in treating their dearlybeloved son in this way, is to procure good health and longevity to the lad. They apply various sorts of derogatory names or epithets to him, as "Buddhist priest," "beggar," "refuse," "dirt," imagining that he will thus be allowed to live, and that no evil spirit or influence will injure his health. By-and-by, when he seems to be established in health, they allow his hair to grow like other boys. All their apparent neglect and abuse are but an index of their real affection for him, and are intended to lead the evil spirits and malicious influences, which might otherwise be expected to molest or harm him, to pass him by as worthless and good for nothing.

PARENTS AND CHILDREN.

The ceremony called "going out of childhood" is performed by many families when each of their children is sixteen years old or thereabouts. It is very nearly like the ceremony called "passing through the door," which has been described, except that it is generally much more imposing and showy than that ceremony, as it is usually performed. The theory entertained is, that at sixteen years of age the boy emerges from boyhood into manhood, and the girl from girlhood into womanhood. From the

time of the performance of this ceremony the goddess of children, "Mother," ceases to have the superintendence of the boy or the girl, and the individual comes under the government of the gods in general. The expression "thanking Mother" is often used in speaking of this event, when she is thanked for her past care of the youth.

derstood as allowing him to abuse, or insult, or injure her. Neither would custom tolerate nor the laws justify such unfilial conduct.

In cases of extreme unfilial conduct parents sometimes accuse their children before the magistrate, and demand his official aid in controlling or punishing them; but such instances are comparatively rare. Public sentiment is so strong against the individual who will not treat his pa

and the want of filial piety is taught to be a crime of such enormity, that few Chinese are found who have the hardihood to lay themselves open to the disgrace of a public prosecution. It is said that, should a parent whip his child to

or never be taken of it in the shape of a prosecution of the parent before the magistrate; only the maternal uncles of the disobedient lad or man would have a right to interfere in the case. When a parent brings his incorrigible son before the magistrate for filial impiety, and demands punishment to be inflicted, the maternal uncles of the accused have a right to interfere or to be consulted, especially in case very severe punishment, as death, should be demanded by the indignant and dishonored parent.

Let it not be understood, because one becomes of age or arrives at adult age in China when six-rents with the customary respect and obedience, teen years old, that he comes out from the legal control of his parents at this time. While his parents are alive, a son must continue to obey them. Such is the doctrine of the classics, the laws, and the customs of China. No matter how old, how educated, how wealthy-except | death for unfilial conduct, notice would seldom he has become an officer of the government, and while he is serving the emperor-he must render prompt and implicit obedience to his father and mother. He may on no account disobey, or neglect, or slight their wishes or their orders. After he has become an official, and is away from his paternal home in the service of the state, he is subject to the commands of the emperor. His parents can not then control him in any respect, though he must conform in every thing to the established customs of the empire in regard to his parents. The time never arrives when a man in a private station, while his parents are living, may engage in the pursuit he chooses, or may keep his earnings for himself, or spend them as he pleases, without their free consent and approval. His wages are given to them, and they can oblige him to do any thing or take any course they please, without asking his consent or caring for his preferences. Such is said to be law; but in fact and in practice he is treated with some consideration, often consulted, and his wishes frequently complied with.

A daughter, after she is married, is not subject to her own parents, but comes under the control of her husband's parents, if they are living. To them she is often little different from a slave. She may not resist, or oppose, or deride their wishes or commands, any more than she might resist, or oppose, or deride the wishes or commands of her own parents before her marriage. Very frequently she is treated by them with great cruelty.

The magistrate may exercise his prerogative of advising the parent in regard to the course to be pursued, as well as of exhorting the refractory son in regard to his duty; but he may not set himself firmly against carrying out the punishment demanded by the offended parent. If the parent requires his son to be publicly whipped by the command of the magistrate, the latter is obliged to order the infliction of the whipping. If the former demands a public exposure of his son in the wooden cangue, with the crinte of not filial written upon it, then the latter must cause the son to be thus punished for a specified time. If, after these or similar slight punishments, the son remains undutiful and disobedient, and his parents demand it at the hands of the magistrate, the latter must, with the consent of the maternal uncles of the individual, cause him to be taken out to the high wall in front of the yamun, and have him there publicly whipped to death.

If a son should murder his parent, either fas ther or mother, and be convicted of the crime, After the son has attained his sixteenth year, he would not only be beheaded, but his body in case of the decease of his father, he generally would be mutilated by being cut into small pieces; manages the outside affairs of the family pretty his house would be razed to the ground, and the much as he pleases, unless his mother should earth under it would be dug up for several feet happen to be a strong-minded woman. The deep; his neighbors living on the right and the classic says the woman has three obeyings: 1st, left would be severely punished; his principal she must obey her father (before her marriage); teacher would suffer capital punishment; the 2d, she must obey her husband (after marriage); district magistrate of the place would be deand, 3d, she must obey her son (after her hus- prived of his office and disgraced; the prefect, band's death), i. e., when he shall have arrived the governor of the province, and the viceroy at mature age. would all be degraded three degrees in rank. All this is done and suffered to mark the enormity of the crime of a parricide.

The principle of a woman's obeying her sou after the decease of her husband must not be un

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